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| Misuse of mobile addiction technology |
I have just completed the diploma and got admitted in BSC. And my girlfriend Sraboni was then a second year student of Bangladesh Agricultural University. One day a sir from Sraboni's department called Sraboni and asked her son to read Sraboni. And Sraboni also agreed without thinking so much as Sraboni's hostel was next to Sraboni's hostel.
The boy's name is Tushar R and he is in class seven. After teaching the boy on the first day, Sraboni called me and said,
- "You know, Pius, if you don't pay me, I'll tuition this boy."
I was surprised and said,
- Why?
Sravani smiled and said,
- "Firstly, the boy looks very cute and Natus Nutus (thick type) and secondly, he looks a lot like Abid (Sravani's younger brother)"
Every time Sraboni went to teach Tushar, she would buy him some chocolates or chips. I often joked to Sravani,
- If you buy one chocolate every day, you will see that half of your tuition money is gone
Sraboni would then laugh and say,
- "Half the money is gone, no problem. I'm giving it to someone like my brother."
Sravani would pull her cheeks and caress her if she could read, just as Sravani would give her ear drops if she was fooled by the snow.
One afternoon Sraboni called me. And he was crying so much on the phone that nothing was coming out of his mouth. I kept asking him to tell me what had happened but he just said nothing happened and he was crying
The next morning I went to Mymensingh from Dhaka. When I met Sraboni, I grabbed her hand and told her what had happened. Tell me everything. At first Sraboni didn't want to say anything but when I was pushing hard she handed me a piece of paper from her bag. As I was reading the paper, Sraboni bowed her head and silently shed tears
The article was written by Sravani's student Tushar Sravani. In this article, her student has described various sensitive parts of the auditory body. Seeing Sraboni, Sraboni puts her hand on his head and writes how he feels. And drawing a nude picture of a girl. And the surprising thing is Madam Sraboni written below the picture
When I read the text and grabbed her hand, she cried like a child and said,
- "The boy I saw in my younger brother's eyes has such a dirty idea about me. Yesterday I left my notebook by mistake and came back with his notebook. That's why I found out all this."
At that time Sraboni's phone rang. Sraboni then wiped away the tears and told me,
- "Sir (Snow's father) has called. Tell me what to say? I told him yesterday that I will not be able to teach his son anymore. Sir has been calling me repeatedly since yesterday to find out why I can't teach."
I then went with Sraboni to her sir's house. Her sir was very surprised to see me with her then when I said I am Shravan's fianc তখনe he asked me to come inside. I went inside and told Sravani, you go to another room, I am talking to sir
Sravani went to another room and her sir looked at me in surprise and said,
- "Tell me what happened? Shravani says in a hurry and will not teach my son anymore"
I laughed a little and said to sir,
- I saw in your house there is WiFi but I can't see the computer anywhere'
Sir then said,
- "Nowadays, if you have a smart phone, you don't need a computer. Even then, I will buy a computer if I pass Snow SSC. If I buy a computer now, I will play games all the time."
I said,
- Does Snow also use a smart phone?
Sir laughed and said,
- "I bought it. What else can I do, the boy has to keep up with technology."
I smiled and said to sir,
- Do you remember the book?
Sir was a little embarrassed and said,
- "I mean!"
I then said,
- We had four books. Some of the boys in the class collected the books and read them in groups. There were some stories in those books that made me dizzy. Dirty stories about brothers and sisters, uncles and nieces, sisters-in-law, madams-students and even some other low level stories were written which would not come out of my mouth. It was very difficult for you to collect those books in our time. So no one could collect. But in today's age of smart phones, finding these stories is not an issue. Those stories can be found within 5 seconds. Not just stories but many things can be seen by entering the porn website
Sir said in surprise,
- "Why are you telling me these things?"
I said,
- I say the reason is that you, being an educated man, handed over a smart phone to a boy at a young age. Even after having a young son, you have WiFi at home and that is why your son can easily visit various 18+ websites whenever he wants. I believe that in order for the child to keep pace with the technology, the parent should take care of it, not just hand over the smart phone to the child in class seven. You should have handed the computer to the boy without calling. They don't buy computers for boys to play games, but nowadays boys and girls play games on the phone more than computers. There are still benefits to playing computer games on the keyboard, but there are no benefits to playing mobile games.
Sir got a little angry at my words and said,
- "Why are you telling me these wise things?"
I said,
- The reason is that you are an unconscious father. And your son is abusing technology because of your mistake.
I handed the paper in my packet to Sir. When he saw the paper well, I took the paper from him and told him,
- This is what your son wrote about his madam. If your son hadn't walked around 18+, he would have looked at Madame through his sister's eyes. These thoughts would not come to him. It is not your child's fault, you are responsible. One thing to do is to have a boy student to teach your son because your son is physically young but has grown up mentally due to the misuse of technology ...
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When Sraboni and I walked out of Sir's house, I noticed what Sraboni was thinking anxiously. I told Sravani,
- What happened? What do you think?
Sravani said,
- "I think if we have a child, we will not let him touch the technology around him"
I smiled and said,
- Without the touch of technology, our child will become a Ram goat
Every parent should make sure that technology touches the child's body but that no child misuses that touch.
Abul Bashar Piyas
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